I think you are doing well to we wary of this guy. He may just be a bit lazy and hasn’t got around to it, but I recommend that you definitely do not meet him until you have seen some photos of him and probably find out a bit more about him to back his story up.

Do you have his home phone number? Are you allowed to ring it? Have you rung him at work? Is his name and number in the phone book? Do you even know his full name? Are you sure he isn’t married? You need to find out all these things and more…

I think you need to start expecting a bit from this man before you even think about meeting him in person. If he is genuine, then he will understand your need to protect yourself and will be only too pleased to supply you with all the comforting information you need.

I personally feel that if a woman ever feels that her man is hiding something from her, then she needs to take this seriously. Women have an intuitive nature which is there to help protect them from possible harm, so you would do well to listen to it.

Also, consider the possibility that he is a genuine guy who is embarrassed to reveal a weight problem or feels inadequate about his looks. You need to approach this situation both intelligently and sensitively.