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I want to spice up the relationship a little bit more. How would I do that?

Dear Lynda,

I have been talking to this girl on the internet for quite a while. She is such a special person and I would like to meet her and spend more time with her. We spend a lot of time on the internet talking to one another and I feel like it is time for us to meet. She is so wonderful and I find her to be a soul mate. I want to spice up the relationship a little bit more. How would I do that and is it a possibility that we will stay together forever?

In Love


Dear In Love,

I am glad that you are wanting to keep the relationship exciting and stimulating for both of you. Here are some tips to spice things up a bit…

  • Snail-mail letters, cards, home-made videos, and gifts – these things can be relatively cheap but will really drive home your seriousness.
  • Flowers or chocolate delivered to her door – you can order these deliveries over the internet.
  • Buy a web cam – armed with one of these she will be able to see your every move as you talk together on the internet. This takes internet romance to the next level.

    • I hope these few hints will help you obtain that certain spice you are looking for. I also hope that your meeting together goes well. Be sure to let us know how it went.

    As to your second question, yes, I do believe that romances started on the internet can readily develop into long-lasting, satisfying marriages. She could be the one.

    Lynda

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