New to Internet Dating

Men don’t want to talk to me


Dear Lynda,

Every time I talk to a guy, it seems like I am just bugging him. I don’t get it! I just talk and it seems like they don’t even want to talk! Help!

Lady Bug

Dear Lady Bug,

Chat rooms can be very clicky and it can be difficult for a new person to be accepted into their group. Personally I think that it is a scene that one is better off away from. I’m sure that there are probably many decent moderated chat rooms, but most chat rooms are frequented by loose-talking morons that will destroy any attempt at sensible conversation.

If you are looking for good conversation with guys you will do well to join a pen pal club.. Try FriendFinder. This way you can sift out the morons and enjoy some healthy communication.

Lynda

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