I have trouble talking to girls. What should I do?
Mac Fisher
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Dear Mac Fisher,
The basis of an Internet Romance is communication. It is the fundamental building block of any relationship.
In your situation, you may do better to look for girls using an online personals agency. Why I am saying this is that communication via email is the usual starting ground in this environment. The advantage of email communication for shy people is that is isn’t an instant form of communication as in icq, msn, or chat rooms. This allows you time to construct a letter/email.
I used to carry around a piece of paper in my pocket all day, and jot down things about myself, my day, my family, my friends, and my interests as I thought of them. When I would get home, I would then compose my email and send it off.
So, work on what you have to say, use email as a communication tool for a while, and you’ll be speaking just as much dribble as the rest of us before you know it!
Lynda
ps.
Tip: While there are people out there who seem to be naturally gifted at talking to girls, the odds are that they learned the skill of talking to girls uncosciously through family or friends. You can choose to learn the same skills. Try the website below
How To Make Small Talk – How To Talk To Girls
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